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FAQs

What is the best time for a funeral service? ›

Most funeral services take place either late in the morning or around midday, often during the week. This allows family or friends who are travelling a long distance to arrive in good time and it usually fits in well with the arrangements for the wake or funeral reception.

What to expect during a funeral? The funeral service is typically led by a member of the clergy or a celebrant, but anyone who was close to the person who has died can do it. A funeral service may include eulogies, funeral hymns, readings, and music. Some families will also choose to include a photo or video slideshow.

Although black is the most traditional of colors, smart and dark clothing is also acceptable. Wearing dark grey or deep blue is just as appropriate as black, while brown and lighter greys are suitable for the vast majority of funeral services.

Expect service to last between half an hour to one hour; longer for public figures, or if there are lengthy readings or speeches. A clergy member or other officiant presides over the funeral service, and a printed program is generally provided to guests.

Typically, the costs of a funeral are shouldered by the estate of the deceased. Funeral expenses are a priority obligation that will be paid before most other estate debts. If, however, there still aren't enough funds, the person who signed the funeral contract will be responsible for the outstanding amount.

The gathering after the funeral usually has food known as a repast. Repast food is a type of food that is often served at funerals. It is typically light and simple, such as sandwiches and finger foods.

While lavish presents are not appropriate for funerals and end-of-life events, small tokens of condolence are sure to be appreciated. A gift card to a local restaurant, grocery store, or coffee shop is a thoughtful present. Candles, books of comfort, and memory boxes are also good choices.

The family and friends responsible for arranging the funeral will decide on the order of service, often with the help of funeral planners.

How to start a funeral speech? ›

When writing a eulogy, start by addressing why everyone has gathered together – to say goodbye and celebrate a life well lived. After acknowledging why everyone has gathered, make sure to introduce yourself and explain how you knew the deceased. Finally, conclude the introduction by thanking everyone for coming.

On What Days Are Funerals Typically Held? American funeral homes are often open seven days out of the week and allow services to be held on any day of the week. In the United States, Saturday is the most popular day for a funeral due to the 5-day work week and generally high availability among most people on Saturdays.

The decision relies mainly on how long the bereaved family takes to complete the arrangements. Typically, most modern American families tend to hold the funeral within a week or two of the death but you can choose to delay the service for any special reasons.

When should I arrive at a funeral? A good practice is to arrive 10-20 minutes early to allow for time to interact with other guests. If you arrive late, use the side aisle to find a seat near the back; do not walk down the center aisle.

If it suits you and your guests better, consider a weekend, early evening or night time memorial service. Create a soft warm ambience with candles, fairy lights and fireworks with a night time or 'twilight' memorial service to mark your loved one's final journey.